Today I
want to mention about homesickness mostly experienced by junior university
students. I've chosen this topic since I feel this emotion from time to time,
even though I intentionally came to Ankara.
Most students who deliberately or reluctantly go far away from their
hometowns to study in another city feel free and cheery at first. However, as
time goes by, they somehow go through this feeling and some manage to get over
it whereas others cannot. To get over homesickness, both university administration
and students have to take some actions.
In METU,
we are in a really different world and have lots of facilities in our
campus; nonetheless, the situation is not the same everywhere. To help students
get rid of homesickness, universities should make use of those facilities, at
least some of them, as well –such as sports hall, swimming pool, various
student clubs, a medical centre, a big market place like that of METU’s Çarşı and so on.
At this
point, students feeling homesick have some responsibilities too. They should
not keep this matter to themselves; instead, they should consult an expert.
They had better not isolate themselves from the environment, but they should
participate in social events, go for a walk with friends and talk to them in
order to get some relief. Additionally, they should never ever give up studying
and learning due to this feeling, which will most probably spoil their four
years and perhaps their lives, but should balance their social and educational
lives.